I saw someone write that Kristen’s toxic trait was making decisions for others and it was beyond true and insanely frustrating. I think this book would have been good (still frustrating at times and incredibly sad at others). Except for the Tyler arc. I didn’t mind the Tyler as a device for her to realize she was settling. But even if she didn’t cross a physical line, it was super messed up that the beginning of the book was her falling in love with another man while she still had a boyfriend. That honestly ruined the book for me.